2020 - The Year We All Stayed Home!!

If you are like me, this is one year you can’t wait to be over.  For most of us we will be happy to see it go.   As someone whose career is centered around disasters and emergencies, this one really takes the cake! 

Since COVID has pretty much dominated the year, lets get it and work out of the way first.  Washington State announced our first confirmed cases back at the end of February, which activated our EOC (Emergency Operations Center) and it has been the focus for the most of the year.  For my role, I have been managing the County JIC (Joint Information Center) since the first part of March hoping to make the most of state guidelines and help coordinate messaging throughout the county, cities and agencies in Clark County as well as making sure we do not have conflicting messages coming out of Portland just across the river. Throw in some civil unrest, a couple weeks of devastating wildfires and wildfire smoke, and you get a pretty good glimpse of my 2020.  I am thankful however, that I still have my job… I have a roof over my head, and I have a wonderful group of friends and family that support me. 

 

The year started off with an amazing trip, which now seems like a lifetime ago.  It had been on my mom’s bucket list for years to be able to do a cruise of the Panama Canal. I feel fortunate that my sister and I were able to join her as well on a wonderful trip that took six of us from Fort Lauderdale, Florida, through the canal and ending in Long Beach California.  Along the ways we made stops in  Colombia,  Panama, Costa Rica, Nicaragua, and a couple stops in Mexico. This was the first cruise for me so there were a lot of unknowns going into it, as well as adjusting to days at sea.  One of the things I enjoyed was joining the Pop Choir that rehearsed throughout the cruise before performing the last day aboard.   It was a wonderful escape and I loved getting a glimpse into the culture of these other countries, many, I can’t wait to go back and explore more.  

In April I adopted a couple of cats especially since COVID was forcing us all to spend more time at home alone.  After not having any fur babies for many years, it was quite the adjustment.  Just as we were settling into our cohabitation, I lost one of them (Willie) abruptly at the end of November.  Now the other (Nellie) and I are trying to adjust just the two of us.  

After working multiple months without a real break, I snuck back to Montana over the Independence Day Holiday weekend and spent a couple days in Glacier National Park with my best friend and his family. I am really grateful for this time with him and his family.  

At the end of August, my dad had a stroke, and I quickly made my way back to Montana.  After spending several days in the hospital, he was moved into a rehab facility where he spent three weeks before being sent home to continue his rehab.  He is currently living with my sister, and while he still has some work ahead of him, he is getting his old life back a little more each day.  I made another trip at the end of September to help with care, all the time while working remotely.   I cannot say enough about how grateful I am that my sister is there and has undertook this huge role in helping him recover.  While I was in Montana, I did get a couple days to camp and hike near Mystic Lake and Sioux Charlie. 

Early on this year, staying home for me, really wasn’t too difficult. I’m an introvert so I had no issues, and as a preparedness advocate, I had all the supplies I needed.  What I did miss as time went on was being able to travel.  I didn’t realize how often I traveled until I couldn't.  In fact, it is the first year since I have been in Washington where I have not even had one work trip.  I was supposed to find a beach in Maui the first of November, however thank COVID… Instead, I snuck off for a few days in Palm Springs, enjoying some sun, the desert, and some hiking in Joshua Tree National Park.  I am thankful I was able to get a few days, even if it was by myself as I had to then cancel heading home for Thanksgiving as Washington fell back under some Stay Home orders that included a travel advisory.

2020 has certainly been difficult for many, bringing challenges, pain and loss to so many people, including many close to me.  Yet this year has also brought hope, and a renewed sense of living in the moment.   It seems many have rediscovered the simple pleasures of slowing down, and spending time with family and friends.  My Wish for you this Holiday Season, is you as well find that hope as we celebrate this wonderful season and look to a fresh start in a new year!    

Health, Happiness this Holiday Season and a Blessed New Year!! 

  

2019 What a Year - What a Way to Close Out a Decade!

Wow!!  Another Year has come and gone and what a year it has been.  I realized a few years back as I started writing these years in review, it was much easier if I kept notes from throughout the year of the adventures, etc that happened each month.  As I look at that list for 2019, I am overwhelmed by the experiences and adventures the year brought.  To give you a peek, I will mention that 2019 included traveling over 55,000 air miles...  IIt is also a year that marks the most visitors I have had since I moved!!  Yes its been quite the year!!

I started off 2019 on the Oregon Coast with friends for New Years.... While it may have been a little chillier than this beach seeker likes, I could not think of a better place to get away for a couple days, enjoy time with friends, and one of the most amazing sunsets I've witnessed.  WIth the much nicer PNW winter weather, I was also able to get in a few hikes during the month.  I am truly blessed to live where I do.

February found me needing to make an escape from the gray skies of winter to find... you guessed it.. a beach!  I spent a long weekend in San Diego with a friend, and enjoyed the sun, some hiking, good food, and of course some beach time...  I had a blast renting an electric scooter, and gliding on the walkway along the beach.

In March, I found myself in Nebraska... yes Nebraska, as I deployed with Field Innovation Team to help support flood relief.  We worked on setting up a donations management center and were able to also help bring in some pretty significant donations.  I am so fortunate to be part of this group and cannot thank Desi enough for picking me to go along!

April, I made a surprise visit to Billings for my mom's Birthday.  It was great sneaking into town and surprise her at a small celebration.  In April I also headed back to Maryland for the 1st of 4 weeks to attend the Executive Academy at the Emergency Management Institute, but more on this to come.

May had a visit from some friends that used to live in the Portland area.  It was great to catch up with them!  I hope I helped convince them they need to move back!  May also took me to Palm Springs where I presented on a program that I have partnered with the City and County to make communities more disaster resilient!  While there, I was able to take a drive and witness Joshua Tree National Park.  Another off of my National Park Bucket List!!

June was a busy month.  My best friend from Montana visited and we were able to take in a concert before taking a mini vacation that included Mt Rainier National Park, the Oregon Coast, Northern California, and Crater Lake National Park.  A long drive but some great hikes!!  Returning to work, I traveled to Spokane for a work conference as part of the E911 State Public Education Committee I sit on.  I also flew back to Maryland for the second week of the Executve Academy.



In July, mom made her annual visit, and we were able to get some beach time in along with a visit with her cousin that happen to live in the area.   I took mom to "Wicked, the Musical".  It was her first Broadway Musical. I hope she enjoyed it!!

August is always a busy month at work
including 10 days of the local county fair, where we have a booth.  I am so proud of the outreach our agency has been able to achieve over the past few years.  I no more than finished fair, and flew back to Maryland for my 3rd week of Executive Academy.  The month also included my dad finally making a visit.  It was great to have him see the area.  I was able to show him Multnomah Falls, Mt St Helens, Fort Vancouver, Fort Clatsop, Fort Stevens the coast, and other local attractions.  It was great to have him there for my birthday!

September was life changing as I flew to Uganda as part of a Mission team.  While there we helped provide nutrition, clothing, medical aid, and clean water into several villages all while sharing the Good News!  I even recorded a song while there!!  I cannot express how life changing this event was, and if you are interested in more, there is an entire blog and video devoted to the trip.  The trip also included a boat ride on Victorian Nile, a hike to the top of Murchison Falls, and a Safari seeing animals I never imagined I would ever see outside a zoo.  I returned just in time, (literally) to repack and fly to Maryland for the last week of the Executive Academy.  During this final week, I graduated from the leadership course which is the highest level of training provided and am now one of only 250 people throughout the country to have completed this course.

October had me back at work trying to catch up on my work projects along with teach classes  in partnership with two other counties training community advocates to help us reach individuals where English may not be first language.  In the Portland metro area,  there are 17 languages spoken by significant communties.  In Clark County, where I live and work, there are 5 and we are working to ensure all recieve critical information when needed.  I also traveled to the Seattle area to help with a workshop, where I was able to mentor and coach the Public Information and Joint Information Section during the exercise.

November started off with holding a new preparedness training class that I developed to help reach folks regarding the importance of being prepared for disasters.  The one day class was very successful and I look forward to holding more in 2020. I was also able to squeeze in another concert November also brought one of the GREATEST events of the decade!!  The 48-14 victory by the Montana State Bobcats over Missoula.  While I wasn't able to be at the game, I enjoyed watching with friends and being able to have a fun rivalry with friends and family.  It has sure been great to be on the winning side for the last four years.... Back to Back to Back to Back!!   Go Cats Go!!

2019 has truly been a great year of pushing myself to new levels, while achieving goals a few years back, I didn't even know I had.  I feel so blessed to be where I am while having the opportunties that I have.  So much has changed during this past decade, and as I reflect back, I could have never pictured being where I am now.  I am looking forward to 2020, and perhaps slowing things down a bit.  While I had the opportunity to improve myself in many ways, I know there are other parts of me that paid the price, and I want to make sure to focus more on those parts of me in the coming year. 

Thanks for getting this far and I wish you all health and happiness in 2020!!   If you have another 10 minutes.. Here is my Holiday Video!  All the Best in 2020!!

Uganda With Love

Speak up for those who cannot speak for themselves, for the rights of all who are destitute. Speak up and judge fairly; defend the rights of the poor and needy. —Proverbs 31:8-9

I just want to start by thanking you for your support in my recent mission trip to Uganda.   Your support helped provide clean water, medical supplies, clothing, shoes, food, along with tuition to keep kids in school which is essential for changing their futures.  For that I can not thank you enough. I wanted to share with you some of the things I witnessed, along with those that impacted me personally during my time there.    

I left my home in Vancouver WA on Sept 3rd and traveled to Seattle to hop on a flight.   14 ½ hrs later we landed in Dubai, UAE where we had a layover before another 6+ hrs into Entebbe, Uganda.  We then traveled another 6 hrs by van to Lira, Uganda where we would be based for the majority of our time there.  

Each day while in Uganda, the mission team would head out to different villages to visit, bring supplies, and spend time worshipping, before hearing God’s Message.   I will say, worship in Uganda is taken to an entire new level compared to here in the U.S. We started referring to it as “Worship Aerobics” because of the level of praise, dance and singing witnessed each and every day.  What a wonderful testimony to God’s love to see individuals with so much less than the average American, yet so passionately praising God for what they have and His Grace. It was truly refreshing to see these communities come together for hours!   Along the way, I had the opportunity to engage and share basic first aid in many of these villages along with some youth that we were teaching new skills.

So many things happened each day, its difficult to put in words yet a few things resonate in my mind.  In one village where we delivered one of the clean water lifestraws that I had brought along, as we were teaching them how it worked, it was very obvious they realized the need to filter their water as they could see the difference the filter made.  In another village, near the nutrition center we are building there, they were overwhelmed as we got their water source fixed. Women and children no longer had to walk long distances for water, and did not have to worry about being harassed for using another communities water source.   What made this day stand out even more was while we were visiting, a torrential rainstorm hit. Over 30 of us ended up huddling in one house, (a room about 10x20) for at least 30 minutes, smiling, singing and praising.  

Another day while visiting a family that CRM is supporting we took backpacks to kids as they prepared for school to start the following week.  Students usually attend school from 7am-5pm and walk long distances to get there. They have to pay for their tuition or they cannot attend. This is a huge burden on many, and they end up dropping out.  Unfortunately, this also limits their chances for a better life without an education. For girls, they have a tendency to end up pregnant at very young ages. The cycle of poverty continues if we cannot keep them in schools. 

One of the most memorable moments for me however was the day we went into the hospital to visit mothers in the nutrition unit.  As someone who has been involved in Public Safety the majority of my life, I never could imagine state run health care being this grotesque.  I cannot describe accurately the unsanitary conditions these children and mothers were housed in as they try to save their child’s life. What made things worse was the fact that the hospitals do not provide food for the mothers while they are there caring for their children.  Family members need to supply for the mothers while they are there. This becomes a huge burden on the families. Realizing this was the best medical care available left me in tears as we left.  

This need in helping these mothers and children is really what started Child Rescue Ministries, who we worked with while we were there.   This grass roots organization was started by four gentlemen who are the backbone of Child Rescue Ministries. Many times they have given whatever extra they personally have to help the children and families they are supporting.  I cannot say enough about these 4 men, and their passion to help and their passion for the Lord.  I cannot say enough about Moses, Martin, Felix and Michael's committment to make a difference!!

Along the way, we had an amazing support team to help lead worship each day as we traveled into the villages.  Pastor Robert who joined us from Kampala, Dru, who is amazing at writing, and producing music, Jimmy, Emma, and Isaac who rounded out our team and our traveling band van.  Each day they would load and unload speakers, equipment, in each of the communities, provide as worship leads, and translators. These remarkable young men who were behind the scenes in so many ways supported our team.    I could not leave out Ruth and Patricia who worked tirelessly behind the scenes in keeping us fed.

 

Holy Spirit Sung by Eric Frank and Melinda Brazelton produced by Dru Kaden

2018 A Year in Review

Another Holiday Season is upon us... Another Year has come and gone. 2018 was another year of adventures for me. It was a year with some difficult struggles, some losses yet opportunities to grow personally and professionally.

The year started off with a work trip to Austin, TX where I had the opportunity to present and be one of just a handful of Emergency Manager’s invited to be part of the Annual American Meteorologist Conference. While there, I was able to explore the city a bit, including some great walking trails along the river and even munch on some tasty BBQ.

Family
In February, I made a trip back to Montana to celebrate my grandmother’s 95th Birthday. It as such a blessing to share in this celebration with family and friends. Shortly before I headed to Billings, I found out my mom was to undergo major back surgery. I ended up extending my trip for an additional 10 days to help care for her in those first few days post surgery and look after my grandmother.   Mom's surgery went well,  giving her some relief.  I am so thankful to work in a place that understands the importance of family.  This time gave me a new appreciation for all the time mom spent with grandma. It also was wonderful to have that amount of one on one time with my grandmother.

Public Education is Life
March found me settling into a busy work season. It kicked off the start of many evening and weekend events that lasted well throughout the summer. It also took me to Seattle a couple times working on solutions to better engage volunteers as well as problem solve in how to share messaging better with individuals where English may not be a first language.

April and May were all about work, yes all about work, as I helped organize and participate in several major events here at home. In the past several years of work, I have had the opportunities to partner with some amazing individuals and organizations. April and May allowed many of those relationships to showcase the incredible work being done locally to better prepare individuals for disasters and emergencies.

Eric Needs a Beach
At the end of May I had some friends from Montana visit, and was able to show them around a bit. As you all know, I love my beach time, and I was more than happy to share with them the wonderful Oregon Coast.

In June, I also finally visited Mt Rainier National Park. Although there was still plenty of snow, it was great to get up close and personal and take in a couple hikes and several waterfalls. June also took me to San Diego for a long weekend with some friends. While there, we also toured the U.S.S. Midway and was able to get a glimpse of where my grandfather spent some time during WWII. I was able to get a tour of the San Diego 911 Center including getting a 360 degree view of the city from their Helipad. It was great to get some beach time and with some friends, and I can’t wait to go back.

2018 also became the year I finally was able to grow a garden that produced, and produced and produced.  With all the fresh veggies grown this year, I also dove into food preservation.  I ended up putting up plenty of pickles, tomatoes, green beans, along with blackberries and strawberries.   I am really looking forward to expanding next year.

During July and August, I was kept pretty busy with work events, including staffing our booth at the county fair for 10 days, however I was able to make a couple baseball games in Seattle with friends in July, and make a surprise visit to Montana the end of August. It was great to get back and visit with family and friends, make it up the Beartooth Highway and do a little hiking and exploring in the 406. I was even able to make the first home football game of the season for the MSU Bobcats!!

September was another busy work month as I hosted our 9th annual online preparedness challenge 30 Days, 30 Ways. During the month, I give one preparedness challenge each day for 30 days. The online challenge has grown over the years, to having players in over 44 states and 38 countries. The challenge has also led to some great partnerships across the U.S. and in the U.K. Luckily the Bobcats played Portland State this year, here in Portland so I was able to make another game. Go Bobcats!!

Loss of Someone Special
In October, my grandmother passed away. I was able to make it back in time to say goodbye. Looking back now, I am so thankful for the time I got to spend in February and August with her. I spent a week back in Montana with family dealing with the loss. As difficult as it was to say goodbye, I have been comforted to know she and my grandfather are now reunited dancing in heaven.

I had vacation planned the second half of October, and although I felt a little guilty taking more time off from work, it truly ended up being good timing to have some down time to work through emotions and to recharge batteries. I spent a wonderful 10 days in Kauai with friends. This was the 3rd Hawaiian Island I have visited. It is truly a unique place from the chickens to the scenery. I really do long for an island home!

Bobcat Football
November found me back in Montana for the Brawl of the Wild, oh and yes Thanksgiving. This year I flew in due to bad roads. It was great watching the “Miracle in Missoula” as the Cats battled back to beat the griz for the third year in a row! It also marked our return to the playoffs. I also spent a wonderful Thanksgiving at my sisters playing games, watching football and eating too much.

2018 has certainly been a year of challenges, with lessons in balancing work, life and family. Through it all, I am thankful for the life I have, a job that allows me to put family first while still allowing me to grow, and a wonderful network of family and friends. I hope this year brought you many happy memories, and I wish you all the very best this holiday season... From me to you and yours... Merry Christmas and Health and Happiness in 2019!


Eric

A Year of Adventures

Another Holiday Season is upon us... Another Year has come and gone.  2017 was a year of adventures for me,  and a year of growth, both personally and professionally.  It was a year that had some heartache yet as a whole, it was a year full of laughs, friendships, and good memories that took me from one side of the country to the other.

Eric Needs a Beach

The year started off, with a beach, in Hawaii with both family and friends.  I spent most of my time on Maui with friends, but enjoyed an island hop to the big island where my sister and mom happened to be and spent a nice day with them including an amazing boat tour to see the lava flow.  It couldn't have been better timing.  While I was enjoying surf and waves, Portland got hit with almost a foot of snow and ice.  It also was perfect timing for me in needing a break and the opportunity to recharge my batteries. 

Loss of Someone Special

In March, my grandfather passed away.  I spent a week back in Montana with family and friends dealing with the loss, along with helping get my grandmother settled into her new life alone after 75+ years with him by her side.  

Returning To Work

I must admit, returning to work in March was a little difficult.  After dealing with the loss, I found myself really in a low spot and unmotivated in many ways.  Fortunately, a work event in Seattle pushed me forward and out of my funk.  I am so fortunate for the work relationships and friends I have made in this career.  A month later I was back in the Seattle area presenting once again on a topic that has become near and dear to me... Personal Preparedness. 

Milestones and Accomplishments

The beginning of May marked the five year anniversary of me moving to Washington State and working at CRESA.  I cannot get over how my life has changed in the past five years and opportunities and experiences that have been possible with this move.  It was a busy year as I was enrolled into two different leadership programs at the same time.  These classes and assignments kept me busy throughout much of the year.  I completed Leadership Clark County in June along with finishing the National Emergency Management Advanced Academy in September.  

Lots of Adventures

2017 found many adventures along the way exploring and hiking.  I spent many weekends chasing waterfalls exploring the Columbia River Gorge, walking on the beach along the Oregon Coast, Hiking the Beartooths in Montana, Exploring the Battlefields of Gettysburg, the Redwoods in Northern California, and the National Mall in Washington D.C.  

                               Family

In 2017, I finally saw my sister and her girls make a visit spending a week with me.  During the week we spent time on the coast, took in the zoo, along with other local attractions.  I loved having her here and hope she doesn't wait as long to visit again.  Mom made two trips this year.  A quick trip in August to help celebrate a cousins wedding anniversary and few more days in September.  Mom also was able to join me on the east coast in September. She had never been further east than Indiana.  Mom flew into Ohio to see her niece, and I drove over after finishing my class in Maryland. We had a wonderful roadtrip over the next several days through Pennsylvania, New York, New Jersey, Delaware, Maryland and Virginia.  We spent a night at Niagara Falls, and another in Atlantic City before a spending a couple days in the Baltimore/Washington D.C. area.  In November I traveled back to Montana for Thanksgiving.  During the week, I was able to spend quite a bit of time with my Grandmother and was even able to decorate her little apartment for the holidays before I left.  

Bobcat Football

Of course, my year would not be complete without some Bobcat Football.  I made the trek across Washington the beginning of September with a friend to watch the Bobcats battle the WSU Cougars.  It was another tough season for the Bobcats but it couldn't have ended any better with them winning at home beating the griz in the Brawl of the Wild!  #GoCatsGo

Overall, I must say 2017 was a very good year to me, and I am already gearing up for adventure time in 2018.  Several trips, both work and for fun are already in the works.  I hope this year brought you many happy memories, and I wish you all the very best this holiday season... From me to you and yours...  Merry Christmas and Health and Happiness in 2018!

Eric 

Happy Birthday Mom!!

Through  my life growing up there has always been one person that has been there for me.  Never failing, and giving selfishly many times where she would go without to try to make sure my sister and I had what we needed and many times wanted growing up.  I remember each year the way she would scrape together to make sure we always had an awesome Christmas.  As I have gotten older I have been able to look back on my childhood and realized how blessed I was.  I never knew how tight things were are certain times.  Mom always carried that burden and never showed it to us.

She has been a person that helped create the person I am by her example in caring for others. 

Today she is still taking care of my sister and I whenever she can.  Along with us, she looks over and helps care for my grandparents on a daily basis.  Putting others before herself, has just always been something she has done.

Later in life, my mom is not only someone I look up to, but someone I still go to when I need to just talk.  She is always there to listen, offer a hug, and whatever she can to help.  I think at times she worries over the things i am contemplating more than I am .

Now that I live in another time zone, one of the things I miss most of all is time spent with family. Visits home, never seem to provide enough time.  I could share example after example of her giving nature. I cannot share in words how much she means to me.

Today I just want to say... Happy Birthday Momma... Love Ya

Happy Birthday to my OLDER Cousin!!

Growing up, some of my fondest memories are on my grandparents ranch.  The wide open spaces, horses, and spending time with my cousins truly made my childhood one that I wouldn't trade.  It was a time filled with wonderful outings, but it seemed we were always together.  I've seen the saying that "Cousins are your first friends" and that could not be more true in my family.

On my dads side of the family there is a total of twelve of us.  I had the distinct pleasure of being right in the middle, and the youngest of the three boys.  For the most part, I never suffered from the "middle cousin syndrome."  I spent numerous weeks each year at the ranch, right along side my grandfather.  I was usually never overlooked or was treated differently by my other cousins.  To be fair, the middle group of us were all within a couple years of age, so there truly wasn't much of an age difference.  Like I mentioned we were all just friends.

There was however one cousin, who reminded me whenever it was important that she was older than me, even if it was just a few months.  As with most kids growing up, we tested boundaries, and who had the right to tell the other what to do when there weren't any adults around.

As we grew into young adults this constant reminder that she was older became a fun joke.. First as we turned eighteen, then 21 and other milestones down the road.  We would laugh and share jokes, and I would always claim it didn't really matter, and she would agree, although she knew it did.

That all changed when we turned thirty.  The joke had switched... I was still in my twenties and she was now old and in her thirties.  Finally I had the upper hand.  To this day, each year, when our birthday's roll around, i get the small enjoyment that she once again is older than I am, even if for just a few months.  Yes I am the younger of us two again,   Happy Birthday  to my dear OLDER cousin, Brenda!!  I hope you have an amazing day!!

More Than Just a Mentor....

This past week was one of the longest and most tiring weeks of my career.  Not because of working an emergency, heck that comes easy with a natural nudge from adrenaline and caffeine, but because of the unknown and saying goodbye to a mentor.

Many folks thought I had met Cheryl Bledsoe before I came to work for her at CRESA in May in 2012, but the truth of the matter is our first face to face meeting is when I came to Vancouver to interview for the position.  The reason it felt like we knew each other, started at least two years earlier through social media, when I was an Emergency Manager in a small rural county in Montana.

Over the next couple years I had the opportunity to engage with Cheryl on Twitter and other social media platforms, and gain valuable knowledge as I worked to include social media into the methods used in Montana.    Cheryl was even generous enough to share the tasks from her first year of #30Days30Ways for me to model my own Montana version of the game in 2011.

I began looking forward to our interactions on Twitter including something we called "Prime Time Twitter" which included a couple other friends in the Portland area and a friend in South Carolina.  Then one day in #SMEMchat, Cheryl shared there was an opening in her shop.  I decided to apply, for the experience, but really didn't think I stood a chance with an agency with such a reputable name.  I'm still a little amazed at that she brought me on board, but not only for the job, but for the chance to get to see the Cheryl we all see on Twitter is the same Cheryl in person.

I remember arriving at my new home with the Uhaul.  I was trying to figure out how I was going to get certain pieces of furniture unloaded, when guess who showed up... Cheryl and Tim.  This is just one example of the kindness Cheryl has shown me since I arrived.

Now in the last two years, I have had some great opportunities to learn from Cheryl, and just this past week, I had to sit in on one of the last classes she taught while at CRESA.  Once again I gained something from her.  I must say, its been difficult week watching her pack up the office as she moves onto the next chapter of her life.  Selfishly I was not done learning from her as an Emergency Manager, however I know there will be more opportunities as time goes on to work with Cheryl

At the same time, I know our friendship will now have the freedoms to grow without the restraints of boss/employee.  I know as I close the door of working in the same office with Cheryl, it opens another door, similar to when we first met through social media over 4 years ago.

Thank You Cheryl for the opportunity to learn from you, but most importantly for the friendship and kindness.  I am not only to blessed to call you a mentor, but friend!

Don't Stop Believin!!

I realized this past week its been quite sometime since I blogged about whats going on outside of my professional life.   Between work, and well work, it seems everything I share has now been associated with Emergency Management and trying to improve and build on who I am in this field.

Sometimes, however it seems I lose focus that there is a part of me outside of who I am as an Emergency Management Coordinator for a county in Southwest Washington.    I forget about how much I enjoy getting out into nature and the love I have in capturing what I see in pictures.  I forget about the little joys of just chilling in my back yard with a glass of tea enjoying some sunshine.  I forget about the struggles I seem to consistently fight in trying to lose and maintain a healthy weight that I so long to have.

And that today is my focus as I take a few moments to write this.  This blog will take on that role for as I try to hold myself accountable in keeping with daily workouts, and eating a healthy portion controlled diet.  I keep saying no more excuses, but I always seem to find just one more, and then get so upset with myself as I find others in my life having such success.

They fire me up, and I need to stay fired up.  I did it once, why can't I again.  I am ready to shed this old me once again.  Perhaps putting it in writing for others to see will be the motivation and help I need to keep with it.  So I ask you as friends and family, don't hesitate in sending a message asking me how I did today... If you do not see me post something for a couple days on my workouts or what I am eating, call me out on it!

I saw this quote from Jillian Michaels today...
"You Can look for external sources of motivation and that can catalyze a change, but it won't sustain one.  It has to be from an internal desire." 

I keep seeing feeling the catalyst, but I seem to fall short.  I know I am ready... I just need to keep my eyes on the prize and have faith in myself.  

I'm ready!! It's Never too Late!  And once more... No More Excuses!!   If You are like me....

ALL I REALLY NEED TO KNOW I LEARNED IN KINDERGARTEN


Recently, as I watch legislative sessions, both nationally and locally I am amazed at how grown adults act and treat one another.  Instead of thinking of our fellow man, all I see is bargaining of what this will do for me.

Earlier in my life, I thought I had ambitions for politics, however after a few years working for County Commissioners and seeing the ugly side of why things actually do and don't get done, I realized there is now way I could serve in such an office.

Too many times I've witnessed that things are done only in a manner of what will get, or not cost votes, instead is in the best interest of the people and long term success of the county.  Power struggles occur where one elected official bow beats everyone else to a point where they just are tired of trying to fight for what is good.

This got me thinking.. Perhaps we would be better off if we adopted rules and dealt with others with the mind of a kindergartner.  The following is a excerpt from "a guide for Global Leadership."

"All I really need to know about how to live and what to do and how to be I learned in kindergarten. Wisdom was not at the top of the graduate school mountain, but there in the sand pile at school.

These are the things I learned:

- Share everything.
- Play fair.
- Don't hit people.
- Put things back where you found them.
- Clean up your own mess.
- Don't take things that aren't yours.
- Say you're sorry when you hurt somebody.
- Wash your hands before you eat.
- Flush.
- Warm cookies and cold milk are good for you.
- Live a balanced life - learn some and think some and draw and paint and sing and dance and play and work every day some.
- Take a nap every afternoon.
- When you go out in the world, watch out for traffic, hold hands and stick together.
- Be aware of wonder. Remember the little seed in the Styrofoam cup: the roots go down and the plant goes up and nobody really knows how or why, but we are all like that.
- Goldfish and hamsters and white mice and even the little seed in the Styrofoam cup - they all die. So do we.
- And then remember the Dick-and-Jane books and the first word you learned - the biggest word of all - LOOK.

Everything you need to know is in there somewhere. The Golden Rule and love and basic sanitation. Ecology and politics and equality and sane living.

Take any one of those items and extrapolate it into sophisticated adult terms and apply it to your family life or your work or government or your world and it holds true and clear and firm. Think what a better world it would be if we all - the whole world - had cookies and milk at about 3 o'clock in the afternoon and then lay down with our blankies for a nap. Or if all governments had as a basic policy to always put things back where they found them and to clean up their own mess.

And it is still true, no matter how old you are, when you go out in the world, it is best to hold hands and stick together."

As citizens we need to hold our elected officials in check!!  Take time to educate yourselves on the issues, and how those elected to represent you are voting.  Be willing to be vocal in exposing those who are doing things immorally and against the law..  We will never fix where we are if we do not take the energy to stand up.


[Source: "ALL I REALLY NEED TO KNOW I LEARNED IN KINDERGARTEN" by Robert Fulghum. See his web site at http://www.robertfulghum.com/ ]

Take Comfort in the Little Things

With all the troubles in the world, all the hate, sickness, and death that surround us constantly. Seeing friends and family members struggling through hardships and difficult times, I easily at times have lost focus of what is important in life.

It is so easy to get caught up in this "we" society.

There is so much hate in this world.  It seems, where instead of trying to find the good in everyone, we are focused on beating them down.

Today at church we were discussing the Israelite's as they had just been freed from bondage.  God had shown so many miracles and had provided for them along the way.  Yet the minute things got difficult they lost faith, even to the point of thinking how much better they had it under Pharaoh.   

Funny how we all need a reality check now and then.  Reminding ourselves of the little blessings we take for granted daily, especially when so many around us are facing such hardships.

For Christians, today marks the beginning of a Holy Week, reminding us of the sacrifice Jesus made for us on the Cross.  I am reminded of how easily I fall into the "why me" category and whining about all the things I do not have, instead of focusing on the the gifts the Lord has provided in my life.

My hope for you and for myself is that we take joy in, not only what path God may have us on, but wherever that path may lead and knowing  "He holds the future."

Life's Lessons but Don't Forget to Laugh!

Its been a couple months since I have taken some time to sit down and writing personally.  And boy does time fly!  In the little over two months since my last posting, We have Celebrated Christmas, New Years, I have made 2 trips back to Montana, one of those surprising everyone for my grandmother's 90th Birthday,  had a good friend come visit, and moved to a new home.

Yup I've been busy.  But keeping busy is good for the mind.  As I sat here trying to write today, my focus kept taking me other places.. Dishes, Laundry, projects around the house, and than I stumbled upon this shared by friend:

• Take into account that great love and great achievements involve great risk.
• When you lose, don't lose the lesson.
• Follow the three R's:  1. Respect for self; 2. Respect for others; 3. Responsibility for all your actions.
• Remember that not getting what you want is sometimes a wonderful stroke of luck.
• Learn the rules so you know how to break them properly.
• Don't let the little disputes injure a great friendship.
• When you realize you've made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it.
• Spend some time alone every day.
• Open your arms to change, but don't let go of your values.
• Remember that silence is sometimes the best answer.
• Live a good, honorable life.  Then when you get older and think back, you'll be able to enjoy it a second time.
• A loving atmosphere in your home is the foundation for your life.
• In disagreements with loved ones, deal only with the current situation. Don't bring up the past.
• Share your knowledge.  It's a way to achieve immortality.
• Be gentle with the Earth.
• Once a year, go somewhere you've never been before.
• Remember that the best relationship is one in which your love for each other exceeds your need for each other.
• Judge your success by what you had to give up in order to get it.

~ Dalai Lama

If I could add just one thing to this list it would be:

• Remember to laugh at least once EVERY Day!!

I think this list kinda sums up where I want to be in life. Maybe for you too.  I hope I am well on my way along this life path of what is truly important.  I want it to be a great reminder of what is important in life.  Friends, Family, Self Respect, and Treating Other's as You Would Like to be Treated...

As for your laugh today... Enjoy!

Outtakes from the Carol Burnett Show

Its Time to Do More Than Just Point Fingers!!

IT as been sometime since I posted, and honestly I had no intention of chiming in on the conversation following the terrible tragedy in Connecticut.   Families there have barely had time to grieve and we are already pointing fingers at one another for who is to blame.  I have tried to stay positive and believe that this act of evil does not out weigh the goodness that is in most people in this world.  

However the constant bombardment of postings is just too much for me to keep quiet about.  I am sure I will offend, upset and perhaps even be "unfriended" or "unfollowed" by the end of this blog, but saying everyone needs to carry a gun, arm our teacher's and even the most ridiculous of allowing kids to bring weapons to protect themselves is just absurd.  In the same sense blaming video games, movies,    or the abominable snowman or whatever the scapegoat is this specific day, are the cause of this evil that one individual chose to carry out.  

Do I believe we have a gun problem in the United States?  Yes!! As someone who grew up in Montana, I understand the right to bear arms.  I personally own a couple guns. But owning a firearm also comes with certain responsibility.  Just like in everything else Education is key in teaching gun safety.  I also believe that this right requires knowing and assuring they are kept locked and out of the wrong hands.   As much as I respect everyone's right to own a weapon, I draw the line at any civilian ever needing an assault rifle.  There is not one good reason you can give me why anyone under God's green grace needs to have one of these in their possession. 

Many have claimed that video games and movies give kids these ideas, and desensitizes them to violence and the understanding that dead is dead!!  Once again I throw this reasoning out the window.  A normal person knows the difference between right an wrong, and blaming these for the epidemic that seems to be sweeping our nation is just wrong.

I do think we all have a part and a responsibility in making sure tragedies like what happened last Friday never happen again.   How do we do that?  By stopping pointing fingers and actually doing something!!

I believe the media needs to stop airing every second of these types of events.  Giving this much attention to evil only attracts more evil.  Yes as much as we all want to know details, rushing to be the first with the story, even if it means printing  inaccurate details does nothing to help the situation.   During this tragedy in Connecticut, I made an active choice NOT to watch any coverage on TV.  While I read stories, and saw pictures, I wasn't overwhelmed with images, music and a production on someones worst day.  We have families that are just starting to bury their loved ones.  There is no need to run these stories of these poor families in their worst time.  Let them grieve in private!!  

If you own firearms, not only do you make sure yours are secure, but how about volunteering in teaching gun safety or donating some gun locks to your local law enforcement agency to help distribute.  How about working positively in making sure EVERY firearm in the U.S. is registered and does not fall into the wrong hands.  

If you think video games and violent movies are the downfall of a generation, how about becoming a volunteer at a youth center, or become a big brother or sister.  Lets help mentor the next generation and get them active and motivated in something that truly will benefit our community.

We have a serious issue of mental health in this country.  Yes this time of year around the holidays, always seems to increase depression.  That in conjunction with a bad economy with so many people facing hard times elevates it even more.

The word Obamacare stirs raw emotion in this country, and I do not want to go down that road, however somehow, someway we need to make it easier and more accessible for folks who need help to get help!!

As I try to wrap this up, I really hope you take a look at what you say, or post.  Instead of just passing on some easily shared picture, get involved and become part of the solution.  Show some compassion for your fellow being and lets work together to solve problems.  Despite whatever differences we all may have, we need to figure out how to get along and live in harmony.  

 I leave you with Matthew 25: 40  "The King will reply 'Truly I tell you , whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers and sisters of mine, you did for me.'

How Well Are YOU Connected?

I started my day like most, opening my computer, checking the news and firing up a few of the many Social Media accounts I have. I have a pattern of  looking to check if it's anyone's Birthday.  (Thank You Facebook for this!  It makes not forgetting someone very manageable.) As it turns out, it happened to be a friend and peer from Montana's Birthday!   I took a couple moments to wish her a Happy Birthday.

Needless to say, I was the one who got a smile when a little later in the morning, I received a message back thanking me, but also figuring I would have "Tweeted" her Birthday Wish.  Well not to let someone be disappointed,  I had to oblige, but I wanted to be an overachiever... I decided to see how many "Platforms" we were friends on, that could share her Birthday wishes.

My lunch hour was spent thinking of the many platforms we were connected on.  Facebook, Twitter, Google +, Linkedin, Skype, YouTube, Klout.  I had hit seven!  Success right?  Wrong!


One more little message had me looking again.  In a day of connections using social media, I had forgotten some very simple easy connections.  EMAIL!! So, messages were sent than to both personal and work email accounts.  Lets not forget  texting!


In a day where we have so many options to communicate with friends and family is it strange the most obvious option, of just picking up the phone was overlooked?    Well, not if you know me.   Those of you who know me, know how much I dislike actually talking on the phone so I could have "called" her cell, home, and work, but, ya that's not gonna happen.

We also found a  couple more options!  Yay for Google Voice and Google Talk!  As I chatted with Tanja a bit more, I found it funny, when she commented I may have more ways of communicating with her, than her husband.

The Moral of the story, In an age where we are only a click away from someone, don't overlook the simple options of keeping in contact.  Whether a simple phone call, text message or a unique YouTube video, take a moment and make someone else smile!

And Tanja, for the record, and tally I hit Ten!! Wait with this Blog all about you we're at Eleven, and when I share it with Facebook, Twitter, Google +, HeHe ..... HAPPY BIRTHDAY!! 

The End of a Family Line

I am going to start off and premise this blog, in stating that this one really has more of a thought cleansing for me.  There is no real lesson learned at this moment.  Just me, working through something in my life.

This morning I woke up to the news of a family member's passing back home. He was beloved by the community and over the years he was given the nickname of "Mayor of Park City."  I was saddened to hear of his passing, and have many fond memories of Darrell over the years from the early days of smoking fish with him and Uncle Pete, to many memories including the Fire Dept.

Yet the thing that struck me to the heart was the context of the comment that informed me of this news.  The message went on to say... "Sad! End of that family line."    Darrell like me had never married, never had any children of his own.  His  only siblings passed away when they were only infants.  Yes, Darrell was the end of that line of the Franks.

This really had me thinking today about my own mortality.   Even though I have a wonderful sister and three precious nieces, I too am the last Frank male in my family line.  Will this be the same comment that will be said about me when I pass away?  This has really bothered me all day.

I did not choose to be single this long in my life. I did not choose this journey in which life has taken me.  Yet it is the life I have, and for the most parts, I would not change the journey I have taken.  I have had some wonderful experiences in my lifetime and through being a youth leader, Sunday School teacher, and even subbing in the schools, have always felt like I have kids of my own.  In fact I still enjoy the conversations when a some of my former youth students who are now adults, with families of their own, call me or we chat to catch up.

Today hit me a little hard, and I know this will pass in time, yet today I do not want to be just a memory.  Just as I have wonderful memories of my grandparents, and family stories passed down over the years, I want to be part of those stories for future generations of our family.


This is also reason for us to remember:  Love your Family while they are here.  Not only when they are gone!  We cannot turn back the hands of time.  Live Today with no regrets, as tomorrow is not promised.

Darrell may be gone, however he had a much bigger family in the community of Park City. I hope the memories of him, as part of the Park City Family will live on for generations.

San Fran....A Sibling Get Together...

With Many Hidden Extra's!

My sister will be the first to agree that we were not the closest growing up.  Sometimes as we sit back now and talk about our childhoods, it almost seems we grew up in two different worlds.  However, as we have aged, we truly have become close and I love the relationship I now have with my sister.

When I was back in Montana this summer, we came up with this novel plan of a little get away and to take in a baseball game.  After checking schedules, and dates available, it was settled.  San Francisco was the destination.

We both flew in of a Thursday evening, and after meeting up at the airport in Oakland, we took on the Bay Area Rapid Transit System to find our ways into Downtown San Francisco and our Hotel.  Well this is where Extra #1 occurred.  We had decided to share a room.  Well there was a mix-up and that room had just one bed.  There were no extra rooms available at the hotel we were at or in the area, so a little nest I made on the floor for 3 days...

After we got settled, we decided we needed to grab something to eat, so we headed down to this recommended steakhouse.  As we checked it out, the little Irish Pub Bar sounded like a much better option.  I am so glad we did.  After eating, we were sitting there having a beer when in comes this group all dressed in U.S.A.  athlete outfits.  I mean wrestling singlets, Boxing Trunks, Swim speedo's, and Gymnast gear.

After a few minutes and of course my sister's outgoing personality we learned that these were the San Diego Padre Rookies and as part of their "Initiation" they were out on the town.  Seems when they got back to their lockers, their suits were gone and these outfits were in their place.  We had a blast talking and laughing with several of them for a good part of the evening.. For the highlight story of that night tho you better ask my sister.

Friday morning we got up early and had a plan of sites we wanted to see.  As we headed to Powell St. to catch the Cable Car Trolley, we realized we weren't gonna get on one of these anytime soon.  Shawna and I decided our best plan was to start hiking it up over the hill and hopefully catch one a little less full along the way.  No such luck, but it was a great way to see a great part of the city as we made it up and down the streets of SF on our way to Fisherman's wharf.


As we started along the waterfront, our first stop was the U.S.S. Pampanito and U.S.S. Jeremiah.  Aboard Jeremiah we had a great viewpoint as the Space Shuttle Endeavor circled the bay area giving everyone a glimpse.. WOW  a piece of history witnessed.   As we continued along the waterfront we took a cruise of the harbor getting to see up close both the Golden Gate Bridge and the Bay Bridge.  Good call Cody!  We took a trip through the wax museum, Pier 39 shops, including seeing Jeff Barnes from the Oakland Raiders signing autographs, and the Aquarium along the way as we ventured closer and closer to AT&T Park for the Giants game.

And what a Giants game to attend!  We saw them honor both past and the most current 2012 Olympians including Swimmer Nathan Adrian and Women's Water Polo Gold Winning Scorer Carli Lloyd.  Along with that, we also witnessed Buster Posey winning the Willie Mac award. The Giants won the game, and the following night they clinched post season.  What a night to witness.

Saturday we decided to take it a little easier.  A cab ride took us to Lombard Street to start our day.   This little windy one block is known as the "crooked street in the world."  From there we ventured down the hill where we just stumbled upon the Maritime park.  It was a much more low key and slower paced than Friday was.  The only real place we had to be on time... Alcatraz.

I gotta say, I don't think any trip to San Francisco should be complete without going onshore at the "Rock"  I was amazed as I walked about the island and through the cell block listening to the audio tour from both former inmates and guards as they told the stories of Alcatraz.  But our unexpected surprises didn't end there.  Aboard our cruise boat taking us over to the island were a bunch of folks all dressed the same in basketball warmup gear.  As it turns out, they were part of the 1 on 1 "King of the Rock" basketball tourney that would be played there that evening.  Within the crew filming was a fellow Montanan who was missing Bobcat Homecoming along with me...

As we finally got back to the mainland, we ventured back to the hotel, cleaned up a bit before venturing down the block to try some different cuisine.. On the menu was Moroccan, Belly Dancers included!

It truly was a great couple days.  Sharing my first taste of San Fran with  my sister will be a memory I will always hold close.  It was such a fun little trip, and I can't wait for the next Sibling Adventure!!