From the Ranch

From the Ranch
Looking West

Monday, June 11, 2012

Hurry up and Wait!

Sitting here this Monday morning, I find myself waiting on the Internet provider to show up and provide me with a better, faster Internet option than my wireless card I have been been using and going over my plan coverage since I moved to Vancouver.  I am happy the window for the technician to show up is only two hours instead of the old 4 hour window, but still here I sit. 

As I clean, do laundry and some bookwork to past the time, I gaze outside at what a nice day it is and keep thinking how much  I would prefer to get outside, and enjoy the sunshine.  It also brings to mind how much time we spend waiting. 

Waiting for all things from the bus, in line, on hold, for our  meal to arrive, sitting at a traffic light, waiting for a new movie to come out, a song to download, the list is endless.  I'm sure there is a statistic out there somewhere about the amount of time we wait over a lifetime.  But lets face it, in a time where we want our news, food, music, our friends, messaging, everything we do at our fingertips and instantaneously.  Gone are the days where we only get our news at 5 pm on the prime time channels.  Gone are the days where you wait for an artist to come out with a new LP/Cassette/CD  so you can buy it and hear all the new songs. Gone are the days when  "Aunt Bea" or mom would be in the kitchen all day long just to prepare dinner.  Gone are the days of the rotary phone, where you would have an hour conversation with a family member that lied just miles away.

 Even our weekend activities have changed.  Not too often do I hear of families where Sunday includes church activities and then home for a nice relaxing "Day of Rest."  Instead we are on the go, 24/7 with a busy hustle and bustle.  However as I STILL sit here waiting, I keep thinking, are we missing out on something that is really important for us to find inner peace?  When was the last time you stopped and smelled the roses?



Talking with a friend yesterday, I was sharing about the lack of knowing people here being my biggest hurdle, yet it is forcing me out of my comfort zone and do things I would have never done alone in Montana.  I've always been the type of person who is more comfortable at home, rather than out in a crowd.  I'm the complete opposite from my sister.  I don't have a problem doing most things, as long as I have someone to do them with.  You will surely not find me going out to dinner alone.  Instead, I'm the type who would order it to go, and bring it home.  I share this because this weekend, I ventured out doing things that I never did in Montana, because I hated having to do them alone. 

I must admit I truly enjoyed the Vancouver Farmer's Market.  Just people watching, and talking with locals about some of the produce, was an enjoyable morning.  Chatting with a lovely young lady about the gym close by, was something I needed to do to help get back into a routine.  Another shared about a couple churches in the area.  I must say, it was a wonderful day.  Yesterday I took a drive to Mt. St. Helens.  The trip was a great way to spend a few hours, and once again as I stopped at many of the observation points, I kept running into the same four folks (in two different vehicles) stopping at all the same stops.  We joked about how we "Kept meeting like this," as we continued up the mountain.  It was a super day of just taking in nature.

Today, with one hour down of the two hour window as I continue to wait, I realize too many times in the hustle and bustle of our busy lifestyles, we miss out on the smaller things in life.  So as I wait, trying not to watch the clock, I will enjoy my coffee, the sounds from outside my door, and the sunshine beating in the front windows.  This shall be "my time to smell the roses, or in my case, the aroma of my coffee."

Happy Monday!

1 comment:

  1. BTW he made it with 20 minutes to spare, and with a very cool personality, got the job done!

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